Am I the Back Pocket Girl ?

My dating chronicles aren't the best however I didn't think I was that bad. However, I kept getting the same result - responses but no action. I'm not talking about that type of action lol, but just nothing. It's like some guys find a girl they like but can't commit. I call these guys "baby boys" - thank you Adebayor for coming up with a wonderful name for it. Guys (disclaimer - some guys) keep back pocket girls for their own ego just knowing they are going to reply to the once in a while text messages or calls, it gives them this weird buzz. And yet we still keep waiting, I have never looked at so many forums to why a guy doesn't text. Then I found something, I resonated with - the Back Pocket Girl. She is always there, for support, comfort, friendship and everything else a girlfriend is. However, she doesn't have the title girlfriend or friend- she doesn't even have a title which is worse. I realized I was the back pocket girl and it was an awful realization - quite painful also. Then I told myself no, fudge that I am not waiting to fluff your ego, I'm going to enjoy myself. Back Pocket Girls aren't side chicks - they get no attention at all until its convenient, just there waiting for "I've been busy with work" - no guy is that busy.  Ideally you are what the guy is looking for but they want to surf the sea for something else. My advice don't be that girl, we are worth so much more.

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