Am I the Back Pocket Girl ?

24 April 2016

My dating chronicles aren't the best however I didn't think I was that bad. However, I kept getting the same result - responses but no action. I'm not talking about that type of action lol, but just nothing. It's like some guys find a girl they like but can't commit. I call these guys "baby boys" - thank you Adebayor for coming up with a wonderful name for it. Guys (disclaimer - some guys) keep back pocket girls for their own ego just knowing they are going to reply to the once in a while text messages or calls, it gives them this weird buzz. And yet we still keep waiting, I have never looked at so many forums to why a guy doesn't text. Then I found something, I resonated with - the Back Pocket Girl. She is always there, for support, comfort, friendship and everything else a girlfriend is. However, she doesn't have the title girlfriend or friend- she doesn't even have a title which is worse. I realized I was the back pocket girl and it was an awful realization - quite painful also. Then I told myself no, fudge that I am not waiting to fluff your ego, I'm going to enjoy myself. Back Pocket Girls aren't side chicks - they get no attention at all until its convenient, just there waiting for "I've been busy with work" - no guy is that busy.  Ideally you are what the guy is looking for but they want to surf the sea for something else. My advice don't be that girl, we are worth so much more.

Thanks for Reading

Lots of Love


Ese

xxx

6 comments

  1. I used to be that girl too, it honestly can be hard but one day you find a guy that's worth keeping

    Stefanie | Casualllyawkward | Bloglovin'

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    1. So frustrating at times lol, but thank you for reading x

      Ese - Chapters & Sunflowers

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  2. Yes I feel this, I hate boys and even girls like that.. I just can never understand their mindset! Thanks for sharing anyway. I think your blog is lovely too, let me know if you would like to follow each other! x

    adelelydia.blogspot.com

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    1. It feels like its impossible to escape lol, thank you so much and I would love to follow your blog.

      Ese - Chapters & Sunflowers

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  3. Beautifully written! Argh, I hate the types that want their cake and eat it too!
    WritingMonique

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    1. Thank you so much - its super annoying but no more lol
      Chapters&Sunflowers
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