Artists for March

28 March 2016




I love music and I couldn't even tell what my favourite genre is because I have so many. When I hear a song I like and play constantly till the point I can't listen again but I can't help it. I discovered this artist from ASOS magazine and entered her name on Youtube so quickly. Her name is Izzy Bizu - other than being simply beautiful, she has one of loveliest voices I have heard in ages. I would say my favourite song so far of hers would be White Tiger. It's such a fun and lively song and so needed to remind me that summer is so close and I can't wait.



Next artist recommendation would definitely be Mr Eazi and I am obsessed with this guy. I just get so excited when I hear it's your boy Eaziiiii on a song, I start pushing my way through dancefloors, most likely my living room but who is complaining. I first heard him in a Afrobeat playlist and from there I pounded the song like no other. Bankulize is my love song, I can't fault the storytelling and the rhythm that pours from that song. He mixes both Nigerian and Ghanaian influences so perfectly. I think anyone would love this guy and I can't wait for him to blow musically. I would also recommend Skintight if you can't get enough - I can't explain but I just love his music -  its so authentic.




Final artist to recommend would be Raleigh Ritchie - and as you may guess I am obsesseddddddd. I remember seeing this guy and thinking isn't he an actor from Adulthood and Game of Thrones called Jacob Anderson, Then I heard Bloodsport and just said wow you should just sing because you are sick. I just thought he was the perfect person to just transition from actor to singer to whoever because he is great at both. It is really hard to do that and be good, being the critic I am and seeing so many actors try the dreaded crossover. I was unsure but he disproved that theory and has made a new name for himself (literally). I love the song Bloodsport, it gained more popularity recently as it was featured in an episode of Teen Wolf but I was ahead of the wave being the music expert I am and reading ASOS magazine again. Nevertheless, I really enjoy his voice, tone and just everything, with so much strength to his vocals.





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Insecurity and How I Aim to Overcome It

27 March 2016

I haven't always been secure in myself. This has often led to anxiety and low self esteem which I managed to hide very well. I always compared myself to other people and was never happy just being me. It has been a turbulent journey but now I can actually say, I really like myself. I always thought that being in a relationship, or being popular would make me happy but it didn't. I had to like myself and that is hard if your constantly comparing yourself to people, wishing you had their features, or that I was skinnier or that I looked like BeyoncĂ©. I really wanted to look like BeyoncĂ© aka Queen B but I soon realised that would be impossible and I better quickly like the person that God had blessed me to be. One day (slightly dramatic pause) I looked at myself and picked what feature that I liked. I picked my lips and I was surprised as people often made me insecure about my lips saying they were too big. Then it came to me if I like my lips why should I care if others don't as they do not live my life. I live my life not those damn fools so  I started wearing lipstick promoting my lips that I have learned to love and wearing confidence as a new accessory.

My Tips ( However I'm no expert )

1. Pick a feature and if you can't because you're being shy - ask a friend or family.
2. Promote that feature if eyes wear mascara or eyeshadows, the aim is to make those eyes pop !!!!
3. Stop Comparing Yourself as someone is probably comparing themselves to you.
4. Wear your confidence as a brand new accessory.
5. Be Happy as you are beautiful just the way you are.


                                                    


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Coconut Oil

21 March 2016

Why I love Coconut Oil 

I ordered a big tub of coconut oil and I can use it for so many things, ideas that don't often come to mind immediately. I love the smell of coconut oil too and it's so multi functional too.

Coconut Oil and Oil Pulling for Whiter Teeth

I swish this (a teaspoon amount) around my mouth for about 20 to 30 minutes, then rinse my mouth with salty water and then brush my teeth. I found it works quite well, I do this three times a week and I have seen a difference, I cannot guarantee it works for everyone but it is worth the try.

Cons

It is not so pleasant the first or second or third time but after awhile you get used to the taste, smell and texture.


Cooking with Coconut Oil 

I use coconut oil to fry meals like chow mein with vegetables and egg noodles. It is refreshing and light which I really enjoy. Coconut Oil is high in medium chain triglycerides, fatty acids that boost metabolism so that sounds so attractive to someone like me who would like to lose some weight and be healthier.

Skin and Hair

I have Afro Hair which can become dry so this adds so much moisture and removes the high chance of split ends. However, it can be used with any hair texture supporting both hair growth and quality.

I also use this as a body cream and its doing wonders for me as I have some dry skin areas also.

It is definitely a wonder product and really cheap. It has so many uses and it's really lovely to use.



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Pretty Little Liars Season 6 Review

I finally just finished the final episode of Pretty Little Liars Season 6 and I hate to type these words but I didn't enjoy at all. I didn't understand the season at all and I even re - watched some episodes to really understand but I couldn't. The season started off and had some brilliant aspects, where we the girls come back from their separate lives to Rosewood 5 years later. Charlotte aka Charles aka A is in the process of being released and the Alison pleads her case to girls to aid her in getting Charlotte out of the facility . I was confused here already as I thought it would make no sense in asking your friends who your sister made their lives hell to try and release her. It then continued and the girls cooperated except Aria and that scene made me appreciate Lucy Hale's acting as I really felt like this would be any normal person's response. A made their lives a living hell but don't worry as Alison said her sister is cool now and won't try and kill your asses.  Then I was even more confused as Emily was pretending to be a student, Spencer liked Caleb ( she always likes someone else's man) , Aria was not with her teacher and was a writing agent and Hanna was engaged to someone who is not Caleb. I thought cool as this is what happens and I couldn't expect their stories to stay the same. I just expected more than what was delivered from this season. It left me feeling empty when I watched I wasn't gripped at all and I knew that Charlotte was going to die but my goodness they have dragged this mystery. I don't even care because it makes no sense now. Hanna suddenly confesses to the crime of killing Charlotte and is then kidnapped under all their noses. I don't how we are supposed to believe that makes so much sense. But I hope season 7 is better as I love PLL.


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*if you would like me to review any other show let me know :)



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Hi !

17 March 2016

Hi ! :)

I'm Ese and this is my blog Chapters & Sunflowers.  I hope this blog will based on everything I love from fashion to fitness and wellbeing. I wanted to start blogging again as I find it so fufuliling and fun to share ideas and opinions. I love reading blogs on the train, outside in the garden - practically anywhere I can bring my iPad. I love reading news and current affairs so I may include that also. I told myself this year to expand my horizons and do something new. Over the last few years, I began to stay at home and became a complete homebody. It wasn't healthy and lost a lot of confidence. So this year I said - it's going to be a better year for myself and I've seen some amazing results already. I just feel happier and stepped outside of myself.



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